December Affirmations 2022

I am being reminded very frequently that everything starts with me. I have to set the tone and the pace for all things that I want to experience. When I take stock, I can see how I don’t always do so great at treating myself Lovingly. When I look around and notice that I don’t Love how some people around me make me feel, I can point back to myself for why that is. I have to know what being treated well feels like to guide others in treating me well. I have to treat myself well.

“Deal with yourself as an individual worthy of respect, and make everyone else deal with you the same way.” -Nikki Giovanni

Not just respect, Love, consideration, kindness, even sweetness. Our own sense of self-worth is always the source. We put up with things that we believe we deserve, whether it be consciously or subconsciously. So, check in. Find out what you’re calling in and trace it back to yourself. How are you exhibiting the same behaviors that bother you toward yourself? Where can you stand to speak up and set a boundary (with yourself and others)? What treatment do you want to call in, and how can you treat yourself in those ways first?

Here are some affirmations for guidance:

I take radical responsibility for the ways I am treated.

I hold myself to a high standard and no one is allowed to lower it.

I am in Love with myself as I am.

I am worthy of respect.

I am worthy of being treated sweetly.

I am worthy of kindness.

I am worthy of consideration.

You are worthy, you are Loved. Don’t allow anyone to treat you as if you aren’t, including yourself. Sending you so much Love. Happy December!